Okay, here's some information on how to nicely friendzone a guy over text, formatted in markdown with linked keywords:
Be Direct, But Kind: Don't beat around the bush. Ambiguity can lead to false hope. It's better to be clear about your feelings. A simple, "Hey, I really value our friendship, but I don't see us as anything more than friends," is a good starting point. However, soften the blow with empathy. Acknowledge his feelings and efforts without encouraging them. See more about being direct.
Acknowledge the Compliment/Advance (if applicable): If he's been explicitly flirting or confessed feelings, acknowledge it. Saying something like, "I really appreciate you telling me that," shows you've heard him and aren't dismissing his feelings. Learn about handling compliments.
Emphasize the Friendship: Highlight the aspects of your friendship that you value. "I really enjoy our conversations" or "I always have fun when we hang out" shows that you still want him in your life, just not romantically. Understand the value of friendship.
Use "I" Statements: Focus on your own feelings and perspective. Instead of saying, "You're a great guy, but...", say, "I'm not looking for a relationship right now" or "I don't feel a romantic connection with you." This avoids blaming him and focuses on your own needs and boundaries. Use I statements.
Avoid Mixed Signals: Don't say things like "Maybe someday" or "You're great, just not for me right now." These phrases leave the door open and can prolong the process. Maintain clear boundaries.
Keep it Brief: A long, rambling text can make things more confusing. Get to the point and avoid over-explaining.
Give Him Space: After you've had the conversation, give him some time to process things. Don't immediately bombard him with texts or calls. Let him decide how much contact he's comfortable with.
Be Respectful: Even though you're not interested romantically, treat him with kindness and respect. He's still a person with feelings. Practice respectful communication.
Set Expectations: Be prepared for the friendship to change, at least temporarily. He may need time to adjust his feelings. He might need some space, which you should respect.
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